While everyone has their own perspective on friendship, there are certain aspects we can all agree upon. A true friend is someone we’ve genuinely connected with, someone we can count on, and someone we can talk to openly and trust completely.
Think about your circle of friends, whether it’s big or small. You’ll likely see a mix of old friends and newer ones. Each of them has a unique reason for being in your life.
Old friends are like anchors that keep us grounded. They remind us of who we used to be, as they’ve witnessed how we’ve changed over the years. Growing up together creates a unique and deep connection. We’ve shared countless moments that enrich our lives and strengthen our friendships, from playground games to working through first heartbreaks. Our long-term friends have seen us navigate important life choices like marriage and starting a family. They’ve been there for the good times and the tough times. So when we ask them for help or advice, we know we can rely on them because of their long history with us.
On the other hand, new friends connect with who you are in the here and now. They might know a little about your past, but they mostly focus on who you are today and who you might become one day. They bring fresh ideas and share in your daily routines, which keeps life exciting. They encourage you to look to the future, often nudging you out of your comfort zone.
This old-and-new friendship dynamic really comes to life in Paolo Cognetti’s book, “Without Ever Reaching the Summit.” The title is a nod to the idea that the journey matters more than the destination. In the story, Cognetti demonstrates how valuable both are, our loyal old friends and our inspiring new ones.
His old friend Remigio is always there to support him, remind him of who he really is and celebrate all the wins he’s had along the way. Meanwhile, his new friend Nicola is the forward-thinker, helping him set his eyes on the future and encouraging him to dream big. Together, they enrich Cognetti’s journey and help carve his path forward.
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